When asked what his definition of obscenity was, a Supreme Court Justice famously answered that he can't articulate one, but he knows it when he sees it.
This kind of asymmetric structure is quite common: where it is easier to recognize something (even if you don't understand why it is so) than to create it. Only the greatest musicians can create entirely new sounds, yet a layman could immediately recognize it as beautiful - even if they can't explain why. The greatest artists make a stroke, step back, and then recognize if it worked, without being able to explain why. Writing for a specific target audience is hard, but if you read it to someone you know who matches that target persona, then you intuitively know what needs to change. Writing an original joke is hard, finding one funny is not - even if you can't explain why. Christopher Alexander believed that the key to great architecture isn't grand planning, but to try patterns and see how they make you feel. It's hard to create the original pith of a viral Tweet, but if you read one you instantly know it qualifies. In Computer Science it is generally accepted that P ≠ NP, or that problems can be hard to solve and easy to verify.